Thinking About Lyfe.

Manusia wajarlah ya ga pernah ngerasa puas. Eyke pun manusia. Eyke pun sering tak puas, tukang ngeluh, galauan, labil, banyak maunya, banyak kezelnya, banyak reseknya...okok cukup! *sisir hijab pake sirkam* *macem sasak gituh*

And last night, i'm thinking about lyfe. Iye iye, yang bener tulisannya life. Eyke typo, harusnya LIFE. Puas?? Yeee padahal kan heits-nya LYFE :p
*nyeplos ga venting terus ih!* *toyor*

Ok, lanjut. I'm thinking about lyfe. Not only my lyfe. But lyfe as general. *ulangin terus lyfe-nya* :)) :))
People used to think that lyfe is all about money. About how you can make money. About how your lyfe would be easier with more money you have. About how people will recognize you better, please you better, respect you more, if you have MORE MONEY. Well, maybe that's true. Some of it.

Some people say, money is not number 1, but money is everything. Money can't buy you happiness, but it's better to cry in Mercedes rather than on bicycle. Yeah right :)) :)) This one I agree. :))

But hey, is it true that lyfe is only about money?

Money and MONEY?

When i was young, waktu lugu, imut2 & penuh pesonah, i often think that way. Gw kerja sampe lembur2 dijabanin, demi dapetin extra pas payday. Gw kerja kantoran dan masih juga jadi reseller di online shop demi fancy foods di wiken & leisure for holiday. But i didn't think my lyfe was already complete back then. There's still something I feel like missing inside of me. Hmm...

Dan skarang setelah bersuami & beranak satu, i started to see lyfe from different perspective.
That indeed,lyfe is not perfect. Ga ada yg sempurna.
Ini yang gw liat & pelajari.
Intinya dari pengalaman dan sehari2 yg gw liat aja sih...
Allah beri 1 kesenangan, pasti ada hal lain yg diambil darinya. Atau pasti ada sesuatu yg dia inginkan dengan sangat tapi belum terpenuhi. Yeah, lyfe is not perfect, right. You can't have everything you want in one package. You need to sacrifice something to get another blessing.

Ada couple yang isi timelinenya bikin sirik se-medsos. Penuh cinta & muka merona karna full of surprises & bolak balik travelling abroad berdua sampe pada nyebutnya honeymoon kedua, ketiga, seterusnya. Tapi ga ada yg tau, kalo rumah mereka yang selalu bikin sirik juga ituh (karna penuh pernak pernik tumblr & bergaya Victorian) sepi dari celotehan anak kecil yang mereka selalu minta ke Allah & belom dikasih sampe skarang. :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
Ada yang setelah merit dapetin kehidupan yang serba glamor yang slalu dia pengenin, rumah mewah, gaji suami berpuluh2 juta, & dia bisa ongkang ongkang kaki cuma mikir tiap pagi mau sopping kmana hari ni. Tapi dibalik itu ada mama mertuanya yang selalu ngatur rumah tangga dia. Dari cara dia harusnya ngrawat suaminya (yang indeed anak lakinya), gimana cara dia ngatur rumahnya, sampe ngatur printilan kehidupan dia.  Mama mertuanya adalah pembuat keputusannya. She's not the queen, her mother in law is. Is she happy?

Ada yang udah punya anak yang lucu2 & soooo adorable, suami yang ganteng & mapan, tapi....ternyata lakinya tukang maen perempuan. Tiap pengkolan punya simpenan. Hiiiy! >:O >:O >:O

Ada lagi yang udah punya geng sosialita, anak udah sepasang, suami setia, mapan & adorable, rumah mewah & mobil berjejer, tapi....dia gadaikan semua itu dengan imannya. Astaghfirullah! Is it all worth it?

See lyfe is not perfect. It's never be perfect. If we chase perfection, we will never have it. For now, I'm grateful for what I have. Seize the moments with the ones that make me happy. And others who make me unhappy, why I need to care? I've been busy making my lyfe count :p :p

Happy Sunday people! Buruan jalan-jalan, makan enak, peluk pacar/bojomu, dan be happy!